Gay Friendly Meadowood Napa Valley

Settled among two-hundred-fifty private acres, the estate’s timeless architecture, sporting activities, restorative spa services and Michelin Three-Star and James Beard Award winning dining enhance and elevate time spent in this preeminent winegrowing region.   

In 1979, H. William Harlan was searching for land on which to create a wine estate when he was introduced to Meadowood. The property wasn't ideally suited to grape growing, but Mr. Harlan was intrigued and called his partners to share the news of the hidden gem. Within forty-eight hours the partners owned the estate and began planning its future not only as a gathering place for the burgeoning local winegrowing community, but as an upscale resort in Napa Valley that would become a luxury destination for discerning travelers from around the world seeking an authentically Napa Valley experience.

Lodging at Meadowood

Emersion into the Napa Valley way of life begins with vaulted ceilings, natural light, beautiful views, comfortable furnishings, glowing fireplaces, and private terraces, all of which invite you to breathe, stretch, relax and fully enjoy all that surrounds you.

Dining at Meadowood

The Restaurant at Meadowood offers a casually elegant dining experience featuring a modern approach to Napa Valley cuisine by Chef Christopher Kostow.

Wine Experiences

Hundreds of legendary wines, passionate vintners, exceptional winery tours of Napa Valley and memorable experiences await. All Meadowood to introduce you!

Romance at Meadowood

Begin or continue your love affair surrounded by nature and attended by people of genuine warmth and you will always have a special place to revisit in your memories.

The Meadowood Spa

Your experience begins with a warm welcome and unfolds with the skilled and intuitive touch of the therapists. It truly transcends the four walls of the building to encompass the beautiful, expansive acreage of the private estate. 

Click below to see what their Director of Spa and Wellness had to say!



The sporting life features golf, tennis, croquet,hiking, swimming and sporting events. 


Beautiful, joyful, everlasting perfection. Flowers, vases, ribbons, music, lacy flower girls, satin shoes, sighs, smiles, laughter, toasts, long embraces, long life together. Meadowood Napa Valley would be honored to share in the planning of your wedding day.

Click here to read our exclusive interview with the Director of Spa and Wellness at the new Meadowood Spa!

Special Offers

  • Relax. Detox. Energize.

A healthy stay – your way – in Wine Country. Meadowood has once again partnered with Farmhouse Inn in Sonoma to create the ultimate four-night wellness getaway, taking advantage of the best healthy offerings at both properties: Relax. Detox. Energize. Since “wellness” is not one-size-fits-all, three different versions of the package were created for guests to choose from: Relax, Detox and Energize.

All versions of the offering include: two nights at Farmhouse Inn in a King Deluxe room; two nights at Meadowood in either an Oakview, Hillside Terrace or Treeline Suite; daily breakfasts; two massages at each property; wellness activities with a pre-arrival consult and welcome amenities. 

Find out more about the offer here.

Special Offers

  • Wine & Wellness Retreat

Wellness is about balance and learning how to enjoy the finer things in life while staying healthy.
Learn about biodynamic and organic wines while you enjoy the beautiful outdoor activities of Meadowood, enjoy the spa, fitness classes, nutritional coaching, and cooking classes. Offered in three- and five-day packages, the Meadowood Spa and Fitness team has partnered with local organic and biodynamic wineries in the Napa Valley to offer guests a health-conscious retreat that incorporates wine tasting on a unique level. 

Find out more about the retreat here.

  • The Meadowood Spa
  • The Restaurant at Meadowood

An All-Suite Spa Experience

The new Meadowood Spa offers calming suites, stellar treatments, boutiques, relaxation gardens and a healthy culinary menu. 

For more information or to make spa reservations, click here.

A Michelin Three-Star Dining Experience

A modern American restaurant, The Restaurant at Meadowood speaks to, and positively impacts, the Napa Valley community. What excites us most is the concept of curation: the forging of relationships with artisans, growers, foragers and other members of this dynamic Napa Valley community. We hope their stories can meld with ours; that we can be caretakers of this collective vision—sharing it with our guests in a manner at once personal and celebratory.  


Amenities at a Glance:

Management Info:
Gay friendly

Mixed Gay/Straight

In Room Facilities/Services:
Coffee / Tea Pot
Internet Access

On Property Facilities/Services:
Room Service
Celebration Planning

Commitment Ceremony Planning / Hosting:
Call for Information

Near Tourist Attractions
Near Wineries

Children Welcome:
Call for Information

Pets Allowed:


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