There are tons of gay beaches, surf clubs, and gay sporting events year-round that make it easy to plan a trip to the islands. Although many locals are still a bit conservative, and the gay scene does seem to be a bit closeted, you will always be able to spot the gay friendly areas in Honolulu. Hawaii is one of the most laid back places in the US and you can enjoy a generally accepting atmosphere from the locals. Many of the gay bars are just a few yards away from the white sandy beaches. Queen’s Surf Beach is a popular gay stop if your itching to get into your swimwear and show off. The gay nightlife is right in the center of Queen’s Surf Beach.