Because of its location in Delaware, Rehoboth Beach is an excellent getaway for DC, Baltimore, and Philadelphia locals. During the summer season, the Rehoboth population swells to well over 50,000 which makes for plenty of eye candy. The boardwalk definitely adds to the appeal of the beach for it offers a variety of food, arcade, and bar options. Better yet, be sure to check out the active house party scene in this beach town because most of the parties are open to the public.

No matter what you do in this summer beach town, don’t be surprised to find affordable options that are also trendy and elegant. For more active options, try one of the nearby parks for hiking trails, camping, fishing, and kayaking. And if you love to shop, check out the various nearby outlet malls because Delaware has no sales tax! No matter what your style, there is something for everyone in Rehoboth Beach. There is truly no better place to spend your summer!

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Mumbai International Film Festival- Mumbai

The Mumbai International Film Festival offers cinema as a means to understand what being queer means today, and how it impacts both the queer community and the society at large and foster better understanding of queer thoughts, desires and expressions.

Bearpawalypse- Chicago

Join us this May as BEARPAWCALYPSE explodes on the scene in the great city of Chicago! Looking for a quiet weekend catching up with old friends? Thinking about igniting some excitement with new ones? BEARPAWCALYPSE is a storm brewing like no other. No one can resist it. Come feel the rush as BEAR PRIDE 18 roars into town.

The Monster Beach- Pensacola

The Monster Beach party is composed of 4 top notch beach events across Pensacola Beach, Florida. Including the very popular Boat Parties, occurring all 4 days this year due to popular demand last year.  The main event for Monster Beach is open to the public on Saturday & Sunday so don't miss it!

Albuquerque Wine Festival- Albuquerque

Get your wine on at the Albuquerque Wine Festival this Memorial Day Weekend! Enjoy dozens of great wine labels at this beautiful event to make the most of your relaxing long weekend. Nothing like some classy booze on a sunny Albuquerque afternoon. 

International Mr. Leather- Chicago

Check out who will dominate the leather scene this year at International Mr. Leather! There is even a Leather Market where you can get your hands- or other body parts- on some top notch leather goods. The eye candy at this event will be off the hook so be sure to come hungry!

Matinee Las Vegas Festival- Las Vegas

Matinee Las Vegas Festival is the best way to bring in the summer! Happening over Memorial Day Weekend, this event will definitely leave you begging for more! No better way to celebrate than gitting the sunset strip. 

Chocolate City Pride 2012- Washington D.C.

THE hottest parties on earth will be in DC on Memorial weekend, all at a fraction of what you would spend elsewhere. Party in the best venues in the city, to the tunes of the best DJs in the country while being enticed by 30 of the sexiest exotic dancers you could ever imagine. 

Sacramento Music Festival- Sacramento

Now in its 39th year, the 2012 Sacramento Music Festival has a new name and many new styles of music in response to popular demand! As always, it's one GIANT PARTY in Old Sac and surrounding hotel ballrooms pulsing with the rhythms of jazz, swing, blues, zydeco, rockabilly, bluegrass, Latin music and more.

D.C. Black Pride- Washington D.C.

Each year, more than 25,000 men and women from all over the world attend DCBP and experience the great culture and history in the Washington, DC area. Attendees have come to expect only quality social and non-social events during the Memorial Day Weekend.

Pensacola Memorial Day Weekend Pride- Pensacola

For parties, beaches, babes, and sun look no further than Pensacola! The best DJ's in the country are going to be frequenting this hot event so bring your dancing shoes and remember to pace yourself in that steamy Florida sun. Various parties offer something for everyone so this event is not to be 

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“I figured a way to get rid of all the lesbians and queers,” he says.

“Build a great, big, large fence — 150- or 100-mile long — put all the lesbians in there . . . do the same thing for the queers and the homosexuals, and have that fence electrified so they can’t get out.

“Feed ’em, and you know what?” Worley continues. “In a few years they’ll die. Do you know why? They can’t reproduce.” Worley made the comments after admonishing President Obama for recently saying he agrees with same-sex marriage.

Read the full story at New York Daily News.

Shanghai, China

Shanghai, China’s most dynamic and cosmopolitan city, is exactly what you’d expect it to be, the country’s most open metropolis for LGBT nightlife and lifestyle. No matter where you go in China, every young gay person you meet will speak of wanting to move to the city where China celebrated its first gay pride in 2009.  The nightlife is unmatched, with several exceptional gay venues and a generally mixed scene at non-gay bars and clubs. Opt for a cozy beer garden or jazz lounge where the ambience screams New York or London. Welcome to Shanghai - The Capital of Gaysia.

Bangkok, Thailand

Considered one of Asia’s top destinations and the gateway to the entire Southeast Asia region, Bangkok has emerged as one of the world’s most famous holiday destinations. Both a jumping off point for the region’s beaches and a deserving destination all its own, Bangkok offers some of the best restaurants, entertainment, and nightlife in Asia and arguably, the world. Gay harassment is virtually unheard of, and Bangkok is often referred to as the gay capital of Asia.  Whatever your scene, Bangkok has it!

Sri Lanka

Although there is no specific gay scene in Sri Lanka, it isn’t difficult to meet other gay and gay friendly locals and travelers. The beauty here extends far beyond just the scenery! Sri Lanka has the reputation of being very abundant with mingling men. There are also various gay friendly places to stay in Colombo especially so whether you are at the bars or beaches keep your eyes peeled for some hot stuff!

Koh Hood, Thailand

Koh Hood, like the rest of Thailand, does have a gay culture, but much of it has been created by Westerners. As a visitor, looking for nightlife, for gay sex, or for gay friends, this is largely the culture you'll most readily find no matter where you are in this beautiful city. In addition to the friendly locals, be sure to get your fill of the natural beauty and excellent go-go bar nightlife all year round!

Mumbai, India

Mumbai is one of India’s richest and most popular cities. It is a cosmopolitan metropolis that serves as India’s commercial capital. Because of its rich diversity, Mumbai has a thriving LGBT scene that is supported both socially and politically. Voodoo, The Birdcage, and Salvation Star are all sites of excellent gay parties and dance celebrations. The Kashish Mumbai International Queer Film Festival is a highlight event that features films from around the world. No matter what time of year, Mumbai is a great place to visit!

Hong Kong, China

Hong Kong features the world’s most impressive skyline and you know you’ve officially arrived in the gateway to Asia, where east meets west in a brilliant show of designer brands, burger joints, hawkers and neon signs.As seemingly expected, the gay scene evolves around the western restaurant and bar districts of Soho (short for “south of Hollywood road”) and Lan Kwai Fong on Hong Kong Island.  While there are very few exclusively gay bars and clubs, many have weekly gay happy hours and the scene remains open and mixed every night.

Nepal

Nepal is definitely up and coming gay friendly destination with plenty to do and see regardless of the time of year! Despite its rocky past with homophobia, Nepal’s tourism board has promotions in the works geared toward the LGBT community. This beautiful country is planning its first Asian Symposium on Gay and Lesbian Tourism and should begin to thrive as an Asian gay friendly destination. The natural beauty and culture here is not to be missed so this progress could not come soon enough!

Taipei, Taiwan

Taipei - the capital city of Taiwan - serves as both the nation’s financial and governmental center. The gay scene is Taipei has exploded over the past ten years, growing from only a smattering of gay bars and clubs to having its very own “gayborhood” in Ximen, located near the heritage Red House entertainment complex.From top-notch museums to magnificent temples and memorials, Taipei is a city where old meets new, ancient intersects with modern, and eastern is influenced by the west.

New Delhi, India

Delhi is one of the largest metropolitan cities by area and population in India, which makes for an incredibly rich visit. Delhi has an emerging LGBT community really offers locals and tourists a taste of colorful diversity. This is more prominent than ever as homosexuality emerges after years of domination by religion and imperialism. Delhi has a diverse population of residents and visitors, so it will definitely satisfy your cravings for culture!

Tokyo, Japan

Neon lights and massive skyscrapers meet the ancient, mystic charm of Asia in Tokyo. This city is in one of the most populated metropolitan areas in the world and is quickly becoming a top LGBT tourist destination. For great gay-friendly nightlife, check out the areas of Shinjuku and Ni-Chome. If you’ve never explored Asia or Japan, Tokyo is the perfect place to start.  A beautiful, cosmopolitan jewel in the Pacific that’s the ideal setting for a memorable holiday.

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What sets PrideFest St. Louis apart from other events of its type?

"PrideFest St. Louis is unique in that it is a free and family friendly community-wide celebration in the heart of a beautiful and historic South St. Louis Park.  The two day event boasts live national, regional and local entertainment, one of the cities largest and most exciting parades, local restaurants, a grass volleyball tournament, Pride 5k and most importantly a vibrant and strong St. Louis LGBT community."

What about this year's event makes it bigger and better than last year's?

"This years event promises to be bigger and better than ever.  The Pride Entertainment Committee worked diligently to build one of the strongest and most dynamic entertainment lineups, there are nearly 200 vendors and sponsors, an Athletes Village, the Pride 5k, new and exciting food options and a new layout to festival.  PrideFest St. Louis has undergone a facelift."

How does this event represent/reflect the LGBT culture of St. Louis?

"PrideFest is the ultimate St. Louis LGBT Festival and celebrates 33 years of history in St. Louis.  PrideFest brings the entire community together under one umbrella and attempts to showcase the St. Louis LGBT community in its entirity.  The list of vendors and sponsors contains those who are allies and supporters but also those who are members of the St. Louis LGBT community."

What should guests expect from this year's PrideFest St. Louis?

"Guests should expect a new layout to festival, stronger entertainment lineup, increased media and exposure and one of the most vibrant parades in the city."

What is the history of PrideFest St. Louis?

"What became known as St. Louis Lesbian & Gay Pride Celebration Committee was born in 1979, but the first St. Louis Gay and Lesbian Pride Celebration didn’t occur until 1980. This event was sponsored by the Magnolia Committee - named for the street where the majority of the members lived and had their meetings. Their combined effort with a second organization resulted in a weeks worth of activities held in April of 1980. At the end of the week hundreds gathered for “The Lesbians and Gays Walk for Charity” which went down Lindell Boulevard in the Central West End to Washington University’s quadrangle. These two combined groups then became the St. Louis Lesbian & Gay Pride Celebration Committee.

At the same time, writer Jim Thomas invited representatives from organizations around town to a meeting to begin discussions for an annual celebration. It was to be held in June as a tribute to the Stonewall Riots which occurred the last weekend of June in 1969. Each participating organization, still able to keep their identity in individual events, would form a larger group – creating a greater whole. At the time, the celebration consisted of a picnic in the beginning of the week and a march at the end.
Thus began a tradition which is still strong today in St. Louis. June is now known as Gay and Lesbian Pride Month, and since the first PrideFest in 1981 this event has grown in size, attendance, and scope. A Pride Festival takes on a huge importance for our community because it allows, if even for one brief weekend, for people to feel proud of who they are. We provide them a safe place to be who they wish to be, and that empowerment can be a life-altering experience.

For over thirty years, Pride St. Louis, Inc. has been working to raise understanding and acceptance of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender individuals in our community.  We are not a political group, but rather a community-based organization that envisions a world where diversity can be celebrated and prejudice has been eliminated.  We welcome you to join us for a meeting, a workshop, or a special event. As an organization, we are working hard to bring about changes...right here in St. Louis.  The Board of Directors meets once a month on the third Monday of every month at The LGBT Center of St. Louis at 7 pm."

How has this event impacted the local and broader LGBT community?

"PrideFest is a festival which celebrates and unites the St. Louis LGBT community and beyond.  It also provides a vehicle for local dignitaries and organizations to show their support for equality and unity.  St. Louis is a vibrant and strong LGBT community."

Learn more about this epic event at the PrideFest St. Louis website.

The evening began with the characters meeting and interacting with the audience as we took our seats, it was a fun personal touch. Once the lights went down the live music began and an incredible organic structure is unveiled and the acrobatics begin, and it’s nothing short of incredible. In the first few minutes you could already hear the gasps from the audience and they stare wide eyed at what is happening only feet away.

One of the most entertaining parts of the show features 4 cast members on extremely tall unicycles all moving in unison while tossing bowls into the air and catching them on their head! Yes on their head! And the most amazing part was they were tossing the bowls with their feet! When was the last time you tried tossing a bowl into the air with your foot while trying to stay balanced on a unicycle?  We literally could have watched them all night.

A few other things you should expect from the show are trapeze acts, carapace (bars), hoop dancing, manipulation, perches, rings, roller skates, Russian bars, and much more! Don’t miss this experience.

The show will next appear Boston then travel Washington D.C., Atlanta, and Miami.

Tickets are available here

It’s hard to describe the Life Ball to someone who has never been. It’s part Burning Man, part Olympics Opening Ceremony and part New York City Fashion Week. This year, celebrity guests included Bill Clinton, the Scissor Sisters, Antonio Banderas, Sean Penn, Lance Bass, Cheyenne Jackson and many more.

Tickets to the event are always in short supply—but locals are able to score a deep discount by purchasing a “costume” ticket. In exchange for the markdown, Austrians are required to put together a costume that fits the year’s theme. This year’s theme was fighting the flames of ignorance—and, as you can imagine, creativity was not in short supply.

Walking the pink carpet with Haley Star, my best drag queen friend, I ditched my fancy suit for a red Speedo and gold hightops. With many attendees showing lots of skin, no one was shocked or surprised by my lack of attire. In fact, the woman in front of me was walking the pink carpet in a thong. And only a thong.

While covering Life Ball for my YouTube channel, I was invited to walk in the fashion show, which was hosted by Italian Vogue. Being only five-foot eight and with some 80,000 people in attendance, it was intimidating walking alongside models like Naomi Campbell and Alex Wek, but dare I say that I held my own—and managed to work my shirtless sailor ensemble for Jean Paul Gaultier. For me, it was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, and I soaked in every second of it.

After the opening ceremonies and fashion show, ticketed guests descend on Vienna’s famed city hall. Entirely transformed for the event, partiers are treated to countless ballrooms filled with heart-pumping music, live performances and beautiful, scantily-clad Europeans. I’ve honestly never seen a party so big, so packed or so fun. And just when you think the party is over, the after party starts around 5:00 AM.

Though I’m admittedly not much of a late-night partier and though I don’t drink alcohol, I had an incredible time. The party, in and of itself, was worth the exhausting plane ride to Vienna—and it was great knowing that all the funds raised support such an importance cause.

If I get another invite to Life Ball 2013, I’ll be there. And I hope to see you there, too.

Expecting around 100 000 gay male travelers and even more other LGBT people visiting Prague, Czech local businesses become as flexible as they can to get closer to such an attractive market. 23 years without communists is obviously enough to become a tride and true gay-friendly destination!

Wide activities of local non-profit organizations have had a huge impact on public opinion about LGBT minority in Czech Republic. Business area- especially the one in Prague- represents an interesting reflection of how people’s minds change. Today there are more gay-friendly Czech businesses than ever before. Constantly increasing number of gay tourists in Prague during the last two decades and unexpected success of the first Prague Gay Pride in 2011 changed the gay-scene completely. Every day more and more hotels and other travel-related companies in Prague want to provide their services to gay people. The reason for such reaction of the market is very simple. Businesses realize that gay people tend to travel more often and spend more money during their trips. The Prague gay-scene represents a vibrant and modern community today. Clubs, bars and dozens of other local businesses offer their services to LGBT locals and travelers and all of them are getting ready for the main event of 2012 – Prague Pride, which will take place from August 13-th to August 19-th this year.

Read the full story at www.PragueGayApartments.com

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"Austin Head, aka the “Glamour Boy of Phoenix,” is one of four HIV-positive youth featured in the 44-minute documentary "Positive Youth."

The documentary, told in cinema vérité style, will be shown at 6 pm Thursday, May 31, at Birch North Park Theatre as part of the 14th annual FilmOut San Diego LGBT Film Festival.

Austin spoke with San Diego Gay & Lesbian News about how HIV has affected his life, how family and friends reacted when he got the news, how misconceptions about the disease are perpetrated, and why he offers sage advice to young gay men.

Meet Austin, a DJ in demand across North America, an actor, an entertainer and a musician. Meet a survivor, who chose homelessness in New York City over homelessness in Phoenix after a misguided investment went south, who couch-surfed and slept in parks and subway cars until he could land back on his feet. Austin has his act together now, and he tells you why."

Read the interview at San Diego Gay and Lesbian News 

"Back in New York City after and amazing month an a half in Brazil and Argentina. The way back, well on board First Class non-stop American Airlines flight from Buenos Aires to New York City (approx. 10 hours and 30 minutes ). Yes everyone, after an exhausting week planning a Gay Wedding in Buenos Aires, I got on my almost flat bed seat, jump into my AA pijamas, enjoyed a few glasses of White Wine and Champagne, caught up with movies and slept the whole way through to wake up over a great breakfast at JFK.

That seats and entertainment system is a bit old and outdated onboard International American Airlines flights ? yes I keep hearing that a lot, and I must say that although extremely comfortable, I agree. But GREAT news, this is all about to change… American Airlines announced changes to its spring and summer schedules, first over  airline’s presence in Brazil. Beginning in December, American’s route between Dallas/Fort Worth (DFW) and Sao Paulo(GRU) will operate with the new state-of-the-art Boeing 777-300ER. The new aircraft is designed to enhance the customer experience and includes fully lie-flat First and Business Class seats, plus seating plans that will allow American to offer a premium product in the Main Cabin and Wi-Fi capability to keep customers connected while traveling internationally. The Business Class cabin be outfitted with fully lie flat seats – all with aisle access. The First Class cabin will feature an updated and enhanced version of American’s Flagship Suite seats. Unique mood lighting and a dramatic archway and ceiling treatment create a feeling of spaciousness."

Read the full story at Carlos Melia's blog! 

Tantric Bar

Probably the most popular gay bar in Singapore, particularly on Friday and Saturday nights with party boys who down a few cocktails before heading across the road to Taboo. This venue features a great mix of sights, sounds and reasonably-priced drinks- all of which makes the open air courtyard and indoor bar of Tantric Bar a great place to start any night out.

Taboo

This very popular two-story dance club features tons of dance floor space and a lounge bar in the loft area.  The main LED lit dance floor is open on Friday, Saturday and the eve of public holidays, and the upstairs loft area is more of a relaxed hang-out area. Taboo also hosts a special themed party called “Hot” on the last Saturday of each month, which features an international guest DJ.

Nirvana

Nirvana Bistro & Bar is a new venue set in a Chinatown shop house that is great to visit day or night! This Buddha-inspired destination offers its visitors a relaxed atmosphere with a wide selection of food and drinks from a bistro / bar menu- all at great prices. For the “happiest happy hour” in all of Singapore, look no further than Nirvana.

Play

Anything goes at Play, which makes it one of the top spots for the island's gay and alternative party scenes! The incredible space is cavernous, with an all-black interior which complement any fabulous ensemble you've chosen to wear. With an energetic crowd busting their moves to trippy beats and punchy sounds, this is one Playground experience you'll be talking about for years to come!

Zouk

Thriving since 1991, Zouk is a wine bar and club that has managed to stay fresh and has even expanded to include several separate spaces. The main part is often compared to the clubs of the hottest cities in the world. Zouk also boasts resident and guest DJs spinning incredible dance music. This hotspot has multiple venues and not only features great wine but also a delicious dinner menu so be sure to come hungry!

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10. Austin Gay and Lesbian International Film Festival (AGLIFF)

Each September, the Austin Gay and Lesbian International Film Festival honors the best Texas LGBTQI films with screenings, panel discussions and parties. If you’re hoping to experience a side of Austin gay life outside of bars, this is a great event.

9. Gay Rodeo

Giddy up and check out the steers and queers at Austin’s Gay Rodeo. Each September spectators have the chance to see the hottest gay cowboys and girls ride their horses and bulls. The popular event is sponsored by the Texas Gay Rodeo Association.

8. Austin Museum of Art

Art lovers will melt for this venue dedicated to contemporary visual arts. The Austin Museum of Art hosts a variety of exhibitions featuring well-known and local artists at two locations in the city.

7. GAYbiGAYGAY

This is the exclusively gay alternative to the mainstream SXSW music festival. The event takes place each March and is a celebration of great food and LGBT performers. If you want to hear the best up and coming gay and lesbian local musicians, you won’t be disappointed.

6. OctoTea Dance

One of the largest gay events in Austin, the OctoTea Dance is held at the beginning of October each year. Proceeds raised from the event benefit local HIV/AIDS organizations. It’s a great chance to party with hot locals and make a difference.

5. South Congress Cafe

Gays love their brunch! If you’re in Austin on Sunday morning, you must head to South Congress Café. The food is great and their Bloody Mary is the best in town. Their recipe includes Tito’s Vodka infused with lemons, onions, garlic and peppers.

4. Hippie Hollow Park

This popular remote gay getaway is located about a half an hour northwest of the city. The gay section of the beach is about a 15-20 minute walk from the parking area. If the weather is nice there’s usually a huge crowd here and great sights to see.

3. South by Southwest (SXSW)

Austin is known for its great local music scene, making it the perfect location for SXSW, one of the most popular music festivals in the United States. During the festival, more than 2,000 musicians perform at dozens of venues. The event is a big draw for gay and straight music enthusiasts alike.

2. Oil Can Harry’s

Austin’s most popular gay bar and dance floor is always a blast! There are great drink specials, hot go-go boys and lots of sexy locals to meet. Oil Can Harry’s is also right next to Rain and three other gay bars in the Warehouse District.

1. Splash Bash Weekend

Feel the heat Labor Day Weekend in the Lone Star State. Splash Bash is Austin’s most popular queer event, drawing thousands of hotties. Gather at Hippie Hollow during the day then dance the night away downtown.

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Coco Beach

Coco Beach is Nice’s gay beach that is also clothing optional most of the year. There are usually a number of gay people clustered together on the rocks sunning themselves with still plenty of space to have some room for your self. This beach is a bit secluded but the breathtaking location and views are well worth the journey!

Castel Beach

Home of the Castel Plage beach restaurant, this gorgeous beach is nestled under the Chateau. There's a wide stretch of beach and the water is often calmer than elsewhere on the Baie des Anges so this is an excellent place to catch some rays and waves!

Matisse Museum

Nice is not only a great travel destination, it is also the home of Matisse! The Matisse Museum is situated on the hill of Cimiez, which is near the Franciscan monastery with its Italianate gardens, the Hotel Regina where Matisse used to reside, and the Gallo-Roman ruins. Since 1963 this Museum has been welcoming visitors to its collection of works left by the famous artist and his heirs to the city of Nice where he lived from 1918 until 1954.

Museum of Asian Arts

The Asian Arts museum, built on the lake of the park in Nice, was wished by the General Council of the Alpes Maritimes and realized by the Japanese architect Kenzo Tange. Asian arts and Western culture beautifully mix in this stunning museum. Collections old and new come together under the roof of this not to be missed Nice gem!

Le Blue

Le Blue is a wonderful nightclub for the gay traveler and gay local alike! Get your dance party on in this hip and trendy spot in one of the best cities of France. Nice’s hidden gem will definitely leave you planning your next vacation over.

Le Glam

This hot gay bar and club in Nice is a definitely must-see! Le Glam is a great spot to check out the local drag scene, get your drink on, and take in the local flavor. Great drink specials and a thriving gay scene makes this bar a perfect place to dance the night away while on your next Nice vacation!

Beau Rivage Beach Restaurant

Right across the street from the Beau Rivage Hotel, the Beau Rivage beach restaurant is a nice place to kick back and sip a delicious cocktail under a parasol. This is a great place to relax especially with the nearby public restrooms, showers, and bag storage. This is a great place for grub and fun!

Castro Street

Castro Street in Nice is one of the most popular destinations for the LGBT community that even features darker areas inside for “private mingling” of gay couples. Short of venturing into a sauna or sex club, Castro Street is a great place to visit for your “action” fix while spending time in Nice.

Le Millennium Restaurant

While Le Millennium Restaurant is a family favorite during the day, this intriguing venue belongs to the gay dinner and evening crowd. Here you can find some of the best fondue that you will find not only here but anywhere else in the country as well! Look no further for the good kind of cheesy.

Blue Boy

This small yet thriving location has an industrial look that despite the name, also has quite a large lesbian following. In contrast to the usual east side location of most of the LGBT establishments in Nice, Blue Boy is located west of the downtown area. It is viewed as one of the more stylish gay discos so be sure to pack your dancing shoes!

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10.  Bourbon Pub and Parade (New Orleans)

“The Pub” is the heart of the LGBT community in NOLA.  Located on Bourbon Street, the bar is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  Gather around the downstairs video bars, dance upstairs or perch on the balcony.  Whenever you visit you’re certain to find friendly locals and sexy out of towners that will make for a memorable experience. 

9.   Bronx Action Bar (Cape Town)

Cape Town’s longest-running gay and lesbian bar remains solidly at the top of most gay nights out. It has a friendly, welcoming vibe, inviting people to bounce to pop music until dawn. The upstairs dance club, Navigaytion, is open Wednesdays, Fridays and Saturdays, featuring the best electronic and house music.

 8.  Club Unity (Montreal)

A staple of Montreal LGBT nightlife, Club Unity offers two dance floors, a rooftop terrace, drag shows and go-go dancers. Friday is college night on Saturday, it’s time to break out the muscles.  The best DJs from around the world perform here and the venue is smack dab in Montreal’s world-class gayborhood.

7.  Blackbird (San Francisco)

Fabulous cocktails and a crowd ranging from 20s to 40s, this is the spot to see and be seen. If you go during the day it is very chill but if you go on the weekend nights be prepared for a crowd, a very well dressed good looking crowd at that. The specialty drink menu is awesome and a great way to start a big night out in the Castro.

6.  Woody’s (Toronto)

Located in the center of Toronto’s Boystown, Woody’s and its brother bar Sailor (located next door) are Toronto’s busiest and hottest gay men’s bars.  It’s a large and cavernous complex with five bars and several nights of the week there are great events.  Woody’s features nightly DJs and men’s contests Thursday through Saturday (Best Chest, Best Ass, Best Legs).  The hot guys aren’t the only great view, Woody’s front windows open up on Church Street providing a terrific look at Canada’s busiest and friendliest gay village.

5.  Twist (Miami)

Twist South Beach is Miami’s largest and oldest gay club.  It is globally known for playing fantastic music, serving up drinks and fun! The “complex” is two-stories and has 7 bars, all of a different decor. The tiki hut in the tropical courtyard is always packed due to the high gage of entertainment and strippers. Many celebrities party here and if you come on the right night, Lady Bunny might stop in to do a show.  If you encounter Pussila the drag queen, be prepared to laugh all night!

4.  Boxers NYC (New York City)

If you love sports and drinking with the guys then Boxers NYC is the place to be. With two levels, pool tables, brick oven pizza, beer on tap, a full bar and plasma screens … after work or after the game… it’s a great hotspot in Chelsea.  Boxers NYC offers the best happy hour in Chelsea—the perfect place to go after work and before Splash!  Come check out the outdoor space or chill out around the pool table.

3.  Heaven (London)

The name says it all!  Heaven is London’s biggest gay club and attracts a mixed crowd of gays and lesbians for its regular club nights every week.  The venue is a series of interconnecting rooms and there’s plenty of space to chill out along with two large dance floors.  Heaven is very popular and has some impressive guest DJs playing the best and latest European dance music.

2.  The Week (Rio de Janeiro)

The Week  Club is Brazil’s most world-renowned gay venue.  It completely changed the landscape of the country’s nightlife.  The Week Rio is located in the Historical Center of Rio de Janeiro, set in an old palace style built in the beginning of XIX century.  There are two other clubs in São Paulo and Florianopolis but they all basically have the same layout ... two incredible dance floors, a lush garden, spacious pool, VIP area and fully-stocked bars. 

1.  The Abbey (West Hollywood)

The Abbey Food and Bar, has grown from a small, West Hollywood coffeehouse to one of the most popular hotspots in the country.  This is the premiere SoCal gay destination - the food is exceptional but the drinks (and men who serve them) are phenomenal! Make sure you try LA WATER! From nice cushioned cabanas to outside seating and cozy fireplaces - The Abbey embodies everything a gay venue should be … cocktails to die for, good looking men and irresistible music.

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When my luggage weighed in at 62 pounds—some 12 pounds over the limit—on a recent trip to San Diego, I knew that I was in trouble. I understood that there would be a fee—but I was shocked when the ticketing agent charged me $125 for the bag. I wouldn’t be surprised if, in the not-so-distant-future, airlines starts charging overweight passengers a fee for transporting their excess weight. After all, it takes additional jet fuel to transport all that mass.

I understand that airlines are companies and they’re motivated by profits. For them, charging two bucks for earphones or $1 for in-flight TV is a way to expand profit margins. But it leaves passengers feeling nickel and dimed—and it makes the flying experience even less enjoyable.

But my baggage fee was just the tip of the iceberg.
Upon arriving at the gate, I realized that the gate agents were arguing. In front of passengers. As a traveler, you expect a certain degree of professionalism from a company with whom you’re trusting your life. It’s totally unacceptable.

And then there’s the moment when you realize your plane has propellers for engines. It’s 2012. No one wants to feel like they’re flying in an air and space museum exhibit from the 1960s. Though the flight was a short regional connection from Providence to Washington, DC, it was 90 minutes of turbulence, terror and deafening noise. By the time we landed in 25 mile-an-hour winds, I was three shades of green.

On my connecting flight to San Diego, I soon realized that we wouldn’t be receiving meal service. If you wanted a salad or snack pack, you’d have to buy it. It wasn’t a short flight—and the lack of food made everyone just a little more miserable. Most miserable of all, however, were the flight attendants. Without even the slightest smile or friendly banter, they did the bare minimum. Maybe even less.

I don’t mean to paint all flight attendants with the same broad brush. There are friendly, delightful stewards and stewardesses. But, unfortunately, they’re the exception rather than the norm. And, quite frankly, I’d be an irritable flight attendant, too, if I were dealing with unhappy and hungry passengers day in and day out. What came first: The chicken or the egg? Miserable flight attendants or miserable passengers?

And it’s not just a problem with this particular sirline. My friend flew on a different carrier to San Diego, and she had a very similar experience. Instead of helping or assisting passengers, they brushed off requests and even rolled their eyes. I mean, really?

When I fly, I expect to be treated like a human being. Is that really too much to ask?

Davey Wavey

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Pensacola Beach

Pensacola Beach is one of the most expansive, beautiful and less known white sand beaches on the Gulf of Mexico. This vacation gem is worlds away from the hustle and bustle of Miami. The Pensacola community is laid back, accepting and embraces gay travelers. Pensacola Beach is home to many gay residents and several successful gay business owners, and every Memorial Day weekend tens of thousands of gay and lesbian travelers flock here to party with their toes in the white sand. Our prime Pensacola Beach Memorial Day Event is The Monster Beach, so be sure to check it out!

For a great place to make the best of Memorial Day Weekend, stay at our featured Pensacola destination!

Atlanta

The unofficial capital of the Gay South is an epicenter of business and a shopping haven with plenty to keep the gay traveler busy. This beautiful city is home to the Georgia Aquarium - the world’s largest indoor aquarium - the New World of Coca-Cola, Zoo Atlanta, CNN Headquarters, Piedmont Park and Fox Theater. Atlanta’s climate is more temperate than other southern cities because of its elevation, so it will definitely be an enjoyable place to visit this Memorial Day Weekend. For an especially hot event, check out Mondohomo! 
 

Mumbai

Mumbai, formerly known as Bombay, is one of India’s richest and most popular cities. It is a cosmopolitan metropolis that serves as India’s commercial capital. Mumbai has seven districts, with each neighborhood having been built in successive waves of immigration. Because of its rich diversity, Mumbai has a thriving LGBT scene that is supported both socially and politically. The rich diversity here makes Mumbai one of India’s most liberal. This Memorial Day Weekend kicks off the Mumbai International Film Festival- which films will YOU be seeing?!

Albuquerque

Ready for a hot vacation in the Southwest sun? Well, Gay Albuquerque is the place to be. There are many places for the gay traveler to explore in this pueblo backdropped by the majestic Sandia Mountains. Whether you want to travel back in time and see the Spanish style architecture of Old Town Albuquerque, be in the middle of the hustle and bustle of Downtown, or get back to nature and explore the gorgeous dormant volcanoes of the West Side, Alburquerque is a great place to adventure this Memorial Day weekend! For an especially great time, check out the Albuquerque Wine Festival that kicks off this weekend.

Las Vegas

A flashy, glitzy, decadent mirage in the middle of the desert, Las Vegas is one of the most popular tourist destinations in the world.  Whether you’re coming to catch a show, gamble or just lounge by the pool at one of the world-class hotels, ‘Sin City’ is the perfect LGBT getaway for Memorial Day Weekend.  With a number of gay clubs on the Strip and in the Fruit Loop (the ‘gayborhood’), there’s a great time to be had while celebrating the beginning of summer! The highlight event on the Strip is Matinee Las Vegas, so be sure to check it out!

Heat up the Sin-City strip at our featured Las Vegas accommodation.
 

Chicago

Chicago is an LGBT hotspot famous for culturally and architecturally rich neighborhoods and stunning parks. Landmark skyscrapers and theater marquees loom over the downtown Loop and Near North sections, while countless boutiques and cafes thrive in the hip and gay-popular Lakeview and Andersonville districts, inviting you to ogle store-window displays and pass the hours sipping frothy espressos. And in few major cities in the world is the beach so close at hand; in Chicago, several lakefront spots typically teem with gay and lesbian sun-worshipers. The hottest Chi-town event for this Memorial Day season is International Mr. Leather so be sure to pack your leathery goods!

For the best of Chi-town, check out our featured Chicago accommodation. 

Washington D.C.

Washington, DC, is not only the nation’s capitol but is also its cultural capitol. An abundance of museums, many of which are free, contribute mightily to the sense of history that is imbued at every turn in this bustling government center. Dupont Circle is the predominant “gayborhood” in Washington D.C. and is readily accessible from the Metro; 17th Street is where you can find a mix of great LGBT bars, restaurants and other businesses. The best place to celebrate Memorial Day this year is at Chocolate City Pride and D.C. Black Pride, both of which should be totally hoppin’!

Celebrate Memorial Day in style at our featured Washington D.C. accommodation!

Miami

Miami, the “Gay Riviera” is a place like no other.  Enjoy a margarita and soak up the sun at Miami’s gay beach near Ocean Drive.  When night falls, dance the night away at one of the city’s amazing gay and lesbian nightclubs. South Beach or SoBe is the heart of Gay Miami. The gayborhood is flanked by the ocean on one side and a rainbow of pastel-colored hotels, restaurants and bars on the other side. South Beach is home to the largest concentration of gay-friendly businesses and hotels, and is the hotspot for nightlife and fabulous dining. Swanky meets sexy on the sun-splashed playground. There is no better place to spend your Memorial Day!

Stay in the center of this hotspot at our featured Miami accommodation.

West Hollywood

West Hollywood is proud to be the hip and happening center of gay and lesbian life in Los Angeles. Since its incorporation in 1984, the City of West Hollywood has continued to be recognized as a leading community in gay and lesbian rights. Visitors are assured of unique & welcoming gay friendly hotels, hip restaurants and gay bars, exciting Memorial Day specials and the “living forward” atmosphere of a progressive city. The 1.9 square mile city offers an enticing selection of renovated hotels, trend-setting dining, tantalizing spas, boutique shopping and bustling nightlife hotspots that continue to re-invent the city. For a glitzy and glamorous Memorial Day, look no further than West Hollywood. 

Orlando

More than 35 million people a year visit Gay Orlando, the theme park capital of the United States, enjoying the many attractions, beaches, and events that make Central Florida a great place to check out. It is, to say the least, a real tourism hot-spot. Memorial Day kicks off Gay Days at Walt Disney World, so there is no better time to visit this Floridian hotspot! Gay Days is the perfect venue for friends from different backgrounds to vacation together - whether male, female, or transgender, bi, gay, lesbian, or just keen on hanging out with a bunch of queer buddies. So grab your Mickey Mouse cap and start planning! 

Kick back and relax at our featured Orlando accommodation.

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They’re talking real cruisers…not park cruisers! Gay men seem to love cruise travel, but not all of us want to take an “all gay cruise.” Still, many gay cruise passengers enjoy meeting other gays on board, and if you’re one of them, the unique site MeetMeOnBoard.com helps you do it. And with over 5,000 frequent cruisers, it's easy to meet others on your upcoming cruise.

Gay cruise passengers use MeetMeOnBoard.com in many ways—the site’s main functionality is to connect gays who love to cruise—either before, during, or after a cruise. To do this, you simply join the site and create a profile. You list your upcoming cruises, and then people can search for you by that cruise, and you can search for others the same way.

Another popular feature is the site’s Gay Cruise Calendar – which lists many gay group cruises (large and small), and all-gay cruises. If you’re planning a group cruise, it’s possible to list it there and help grow your group!

The site was started by real guys, Mark and Dale, of Phoenix, who love cruising and wanted to meet other gay cruisers. “I had no idea it would turn into something this big,” Mark says. “But I love ‘meeting’ so many other gay cruisers, both electronically and on ships!’”

So cruise on over and check out our friends at MeetMeOnBoard.com. See you on a cruise soon?

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Bathhouses, like libraries and newspapers, are a dying breed in this part of the world. The Internet is killing them. It’s not a quick and easy death; instead, it’s slow, painful and drawn out. Indeed, it’s much easier to browse profiles of eligible men from the comfort of your own home—or even on your iPhone or iPad. And so, as more and more gay men turn to the Internet for dating and fun, time is running out for the bathhouses.

When Matt and I arrived at the bathhouse, we were quite certain that the address must be wrong. From the outside, the building was unassuming. But that’s the whole point; discretion is key. A security officer guarded the front entrance and directed us to the elevator.

From behind bulletproof glass, the shadowy bathhouse attendant asked us for the $40 cover charge. As it turns out, visiting the bathhouse can be an expensive habit. We emptied our belongings into tin trays for safekeeping, and were directed down a dark hallway to our lockers.

After disrobing at the lockers, we adorned ourselves in traditional bathhouse attire: a sole white towel wrapped around the waist. And thus, we nervously set out to explore the facility.

When walking the dim halls of the bathhouse, one can’t help but feel like they’re visiting a haunted house at some low-budget amusement park. You’re never sure what you’ll see around the next corner. And in either situation, one is equally likely to be accosted by groping hands with sinister intent.

While walking through the snaking hallways, we came across a number of men. Some were sitting in small rooms. Some were just standing and waiting. A few, mostly behind closed (or half-opened) doors, were in the throws of passion. Most of the men were in their 60s, and almost all of them were married.

Matt and I talked with a few of the men. They told us about their lives—their jobs, their wives and children. For them, being open about their sexuality wasn’t an option. And so, they did what was expected of them and started families. Visiting the bathhouse, for many of these men, was their escape. “When I’m here, I’m free,” one man told me.

Being 28, it’s easy to forget that only 30 or 40 years separate me from these men. And it’s equally easy to forget that today’s more accepting world has come on the backs, sacrifices, blood, sweat and tears of the generations before us. All of us are indebted to the men and women that have made our journeys easier.

More than a bang, I lost my bathhouse virginity with a whimper. Though not nearly as tantalizing as I had hoped, visiting the bathhouse was a learning experience. And, as it is part of our culture, I’d encourage every gay man to make at least one pilgrimage.

But the clock is ticking, so you better hurry.

Want to share your bathhouse story? Leave us a comment below, and let's remember to keep it clean :)

What makes FilmOutSD stand out among similar LGBT film festivals?

"This year we are especially lucky to stand out because we are having our festival before both Outfest and Frameline. We have 3 World Premiere Films, including our Closing Night Film "Nate & Margaret,” which is a fantastic film about a 19 year old gay man and his friendship with a 52 year old straight woman directed by Nathan Adloff. Also, we have 3 U.S. Premiere’s including Todd Verow’s very sexy, raw, gritty and controversial film “The Endless Possibility of Sky” which stars Michael Vaccaro and Brad Hallowell. We also have a film direct from Sundance directed by Carrie Preston (True Blood) called “That’s What She Said which is executive produced by local, well respected San Diego filmmaker/writer/producers James Vasquez and Mark Holmes. We also have 14 West Coast Premiere’s. Our Opening Night film stars Oscar Winners Olympia Dukakis and Brenda Fricker – which is an outstanding road movie from acclaimed director Thom Fitzgerald called “Cloudburst”. Overall, there are nearly 40 films playing over the 5 day film festival – representing over 10 countries!"

What should guests expect from this years events?

"We will have filmmakers and talent from the majority of the films screened this year, plus our Opening Night Party at Sunset Temple and Closing Night Party at West Coast Tavern. Additionally, we have Dixie Longate coming into town for an hour of outrageous standup. Dixie will also play hostess to the Del Shores Lifetime Achievement Award that same night. We will then screen his already cult classic film, “Sordid Lives” with actors from the film there to salute Del and participate in a Q&A. This night of comedy and film will be an audience favorite, so I encourage people to get tickets NOW!"

What can you tell us about the growth of the festival?

"The festival is in its 14th year and is now a filmmaker festival destination. Filmmakers/Actors truly dig our film festival. We are accommodating, low key, supportive and our proud to be present their art to the San Diego (and beyond) communities. This year, we hope to have over 7500 people attend the film festival."

What can you tell us about the historic Birch North Park Theatre?

"This is our 6th year at the historic, completely renovated, 731 seat Birch North Park Theatre. We love this venue. Joe, Wes, Brian, James, Mike, Gio and the rest of the staff/volunteers all go above and beyond to support FilmOut. We can attribute our success by having our festival at this event which rivals houses in San Francisco and Los Angeles with its grandeur, class and sophistication. Also, West Coast Tavern is attached via lobby to the Birch and audience members are actually allowed to drink alcohol in the theatre, drink in the hip bar or enjoy an incredible meal in the restaurant as well! Thanks to West Coast Taverners David and Bobby for being so supportive of FilmOut. With our Monthly Screenings, Special Event Screenings and annual film festival, we are proud to call the Birch the home of FilmOut."

Can you give us some history on FilmOut SD?

"FilmOut started as a thesis project for my good friend and founder of FilmOut, Joe Ferrelli. This project started in the early 1990’s and has snowballed as one of the best LGBT film festivals in the U.S. Since Joe moved to the East Coast several years ago, we have kept the festival alive with his vision and integrity and will continue to grow and keep LGBT film (along with genre cinema) alive in San Diego!"

Is there anything else you would like to add?

"FilmOut would not be successful if it were not for Executive Director Kaleb James, Board President Rick Goldenstein and my Co-Programmer Ana Pines. We are also fortunate enough to have a dedicated and resourceful Board of Directors who truly believe in FilmOut! Lastly, we would not be here without the support of our loyal Sponsors, enthusiastic Volunteers and above all, are wonderful audience members!"

You can see the extended details about the festival on their website.