Gay Friendly Meadowood Napa Valley

Settled among two-hundred-fifty private acres, the estate’s timeless architecture, sporting activities, restorative spa services, and award-winning dining enhance and elevate time spent in this preeminent winegrowing region.   

In 1979, H. William Harlan was searching for land on which to create a wine estate when he was introduced to Meadowood. The property wasn't ideally suited to grape growing, but Mr. Harlan was intrigued and called his partners to share the news of the hidden gem. Within forty-eight hours the partners owned the estate and began planning its future not only as a gathering place for the burgeoning local winegrowing community, but as an upscale resort in Napa Valley that would become a luxury destination for discerning travelers from around the world seeking an authentically Napa Valley experience.

Lodging at Meadowood

Emersion into the Napa Valley way of life begins with vaulted ceilings, natural light, beautiful views, comfortable furnishings, glowing fireplaces, and private terraces, all of which invite you to breathe, stretch, relax and fully enjoy all that surrounds you.

Dining at Meadowood

Michelin Three-Star and James Beard Award-winning dining at The Restaurant offers a casually elegant experience featuring a modern approach to Napa Valley cuisine by Chef Christopher Kostow.

Wine Experiences

Hundreds of legendary wines, passionate vintners, exceptional winery tours of Napa Valley and memorable experiences await. 

The Meadowood Spa

Your experience begins with a warm welcome and unfolds with the skilled and intuitive touch of the therapists. It truly transcends the four walls of the building to encompass the beautiful, expansive acreage of this private estate. 

Read our exclusive interview with the Director of Spa and Wellness at the new Meadowood Spa!


The sporting life features a 9-hole walking golf course, 7 immaculate tennis courts, 2 professional croquet lawns, 4 miles of hiking trails and completely remodeled pool and fitness areas. 


Beautiful, joyful, everlasting perfection. Flowers, vases, ribbons, music, sighs, smiles, laughter, toasts, long embraces, long life together. Meadowood Napa Valley would be honored to share in the planning of your wedding day.

Special Offers

  • The Art of Romance
  • The Meadowood Spa Exclusive

Show the one you love the depth of your affection with a couple of quiet, intimate nights at Meadowood and two romantic days drinking in the beauty of wine country.

This memorable experience includes:

• Two nights lodging in a guestroom with a fireplace
• Breakfast daily for two served in the privacy of your guest room or in The Grill
• Two Essential Journey Treatments in the new Meadowood Spa
• A welcome bottle of Napa Valley sparkling wine with a love note written by the purchaser
• A welcome box of Meadowood specialty chocolates

Valid through December 31, 2019. Taxes and gratuities excluded. Not combinable with other offers or promotions and subject to availability.

For availability and reservations, click here.

Our gracious friends at Meadowood invite you to enjoy an exclusive offer of
15% off of a couple’s Essential Journey Massage along with a complimentary specialty bath and sparkling wine in The Meadowood Spa Treehouse Retreat.

  • The Meadowood Spa
  • The Restaurant at Meadowood
  • Awards

An All-Suite Spa Experience

The Award-Winning Meadowood Spa offers calming suites, stellar treatments, boutiques, relaxation gardens and a healthy culinary menu. 

For more information or to make spa reservations

A Michelin Three-Star Dining Experience

A modern American restaurant, The Restaurant at Meadowood speaks to, and positively impacts, the Napa Valley community. What excites us most is the concept of curation: the forging of relationships with artisans, growers, foragers and other members of this dynamic Napa Valley community. We hope their stories can meld with ours; that we can be caretakers of this collective vision—sharing it with our guests in a manner at once personal and celebratory.  


Along with their other many awards, Meadowood has received a very rare triple Five-Star award from Forbes Travel Guide joining an elite group of only 13 hotels in the world to have all three Five-Star designations (Hotel, Restaurant and Spa) at the same property.

They were also awarded the 2016 and 2017 Gay Travel Award for Spa of the Year!


Amenities at a Glance:

Management Info:
Gay friendly

Mixed Gay/Straight

In Room Facilities/Services:
Coffee / Tea Pot
Internet Access

On Property Facilities/Services:
Meeting Rooms
Room Service
Celebration Planning
Swimming Pool(s)

Commitment Ceremony Planning / Hosting:

Nap Valley

Children Welcome:

Pets Allowed:


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