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Gay Captiva and Sanibel Islands

When gay travelers are dead set on finding a serene, unblemished coastline to escape it all, Sanibel Island and its equally enchanting neighbor Captiva Island are just what the doctor ordered.

These nature-infused barrier islands on Florida’s Southwest side, just outside of Fort Myers, have little in common with some of Florida’s other major tourists spots. For one thing, there are no high-rise condos, rowdy crowds, or even stop lights here. Since 1974, no buildings taller than two stories have been constructed, and you won’t be annoyed by the familiar site of fast food and chain restaurants, which are banned (other than a few that were grandfathered in).

The Sanibel Causeway, connecting travelers to mainland Florida

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In place of unbridled commercialism, you’ll find an abundance of gifts from Mother Nature, including 15 miles of beaches, 250 kinds of shells, and more than 200 birds and 50 types of fish. More than half of the islands are swallowed up by wildlife refuges ripe for exploring — in fact, 25 miles of bike trails weave through the unadulterated landscape.  

More than 250 shells can be found on Sanibel and Captiva Islands

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And in case you think all beaches in Florida are the same, you’d be mistaken. The Gulf of Mexico offers bone-white sand and tranquil, turquoise water. One look and you’ll be positive you found heaven on earth.

Gay Scene in Sanibel and Captiva

While these hush-hush islands of less than 10,000 residents have all the ingredients for a relaxing getaway, there isn’t a thriving LGBT scene here per se. However, this affluent community is welcoming to diverse populations, and you shouldn’t have any issues being openly gay. In neighboring Fort Myers, you can find red-hot gay nightlife options and even an annual Southwest Florida Pride event.

When to Visit

Cayo Costa, a serene stretch located north of Captiva Island

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Like most destinations in Florida, Sanibel and Captiva Islands experience a high season in the winter months, essentially starting in mid-December. Rates for accommodations tend to be higher until the end of April, but the good news is that the weather is at its most heavenly during this time. Summer is also a busy period, though visit in June, July, or August and you’ll have major heat and humidity to deal with (not to mention frequent afternoon storms). Budget travelers wait until September or October to cash in on deals and promotions during the slowest time of the year for beach travel.

Activities and Attractions

Kayaking in mangroves in Sanibel/Captiva

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Outdoor activities and water sports reign supreme in this lush corner of Florida. Boating, fishing, hiking, kayaking and birding are ever popular, and the islands’ small size makes everything easily accessible. Though it may be tempting to spend your days swinging in a hammock, drink in hand, here are a few reasons to leave the comfort of your hotel:

Bowman’s Beach: A prime spot for beachcombers looking for shells, this scenic stretch is also a favorite of nude sunbathers of all stripes (not technically allowed, but we’re not telling!).

Periwinkle Way: As Sanibel’s main artery, this stretch anchors many of the commercial businesses and hotels on the island’s eastern half. Come here to eat, shop, or stock up on goods and equipment for your outdoor adventures.

The Botanical Gardens at Sanibel Moorings: Take a public or private tour to explore this exotic six-acre scenic garden, filled with native and non-invasive tropical species, from cacti and orchids to palms and cycads. You might also get the chance to glimpse rabbits, butterflies, and even turtles along the pathways, located within the Sanibel Mooring beachside resort.

The J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge: There’s a lot to take in at this 5,200-acre park, where you can explore mangrove ecosystems and get a glimpse of migratory bird populations.

The J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge

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Sanibel Lighthouse: Not only is this landmark interesting from a historic standpoint, it also marks one of the most beautiful beaches in the area, wrapping around the eastern corner of Sanibel Island.

The historic Sanibel Lighthouse

Photo by Peter W. Cross for VISIT FLORIDA

Turner Beach: A prime spot to view sunsets, Turner Beach features a rock jetty that forms a mini-lagoon with peaceful waters perfect for relaxing dips.

Gay-Friendly Dining

Eating out is one of the best parts of any gay vacation to Sanibel and Captiva Islands. Enjoy a medley of flavors and ingredients prepared by local dining establishments.

Bleu Rendezvous Bistro: Have a romantic evening with your partner at this French-style bistro, which offers prix fixe menus and a la carte options.

The Bubble Room: Yes, it’s touristy, but its wild, kitschy décor and year-round Christmas theme, not to mention its menu of classic American fare, make this gem hard to resist.

Lazy Flamingo: If it’s seafood you want, it’s seafood you’ll get at this sporty spot featuring a no-frills open-air deck.  

Gay-Friendly Nightlife

Sanibel and Captiva Islands are treasured for their sleepiness, so you’re not going to find the thumping beats of nightclubs or all-night parties. However, there are plenty of charming places to sit down and enjoy a relaxing evening in stunning surroundings.

Turtle’s Pool & Beach Bar: Get your tiki fix at this thatched-roof patio offering a great happy hour with cheap beer and wine specials plus specialty drinks.

Doc Ford’s Rum Bar & Grille: Always a popular spot thanks to its collection of TVs, its tropical cocktails, and its menu of Caribbean-inspired cuisine, Doc’s is in a class of its own.

The Mucky Duck Neighborhood Pub: It’s hard to beat this beachfront spot in Captiva, where sunsets are divine and the atmosphere is laid-back and welcoming.  

Safety

In general, Sanibel and Captiva Islands are very safe and welcoming — in fact, this area is one of the safest in Florida. You’ll find a tolerant culture prevails here, thanks in part to the islands’ proximity to the gay hub of Fort Myers.

Transportation

There’s no dedicated bus line serving Sanibel and Captiva. Though some people prefer to get around the island by bike, scooter, or golf cart, most visitors find it’s easiest to rent a car to get around. We recommend you book a rental car with Advantage Rent A Car, which offers a 20% discount and a free additional driver when you use the GAYTRAVEL promo code.

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